Since my last post, there have been a number of new adventures. A
couple of which have taught me some tough lessons in negotiating.
I've
learned that one should never buy an umbrella when it's raining. The
umbrella salesperson has all the power in that interaction.
I've
also had a tough lesson in contract law. Saki and I brought our laundry
to a cleaners on Thursday morning. She had to get to work before we
figured out how much it would cost to get things cleaned. So, I was
stuck "talking" to the guy, who spoke very little English. He added up
the prices for each shirt, pair of shorts, pair of underwear, etc. The
price he gave me for the approximately two loads of laundry was
(equivalent to) about $75. I thought this price was ridiculously high,
and had a very good alternative available, which would be to take the
clothes to Saki's apartment and wash them for free. So, after I saw
that price, I asked the guy to give me the clothes back. He refused. I
asked and asked through gestures to just please give me the clothes
back. Instead, he offered a price of (roughly) $60.15. That was still
way higher than I wanted to pay. He then gestured for me to call Saki
so that he could talk to her. I did so, but that didn't seem to help
things much. Finally, he gave me the pen and paper and asked me to name
my price. I wrote down a number equivalent to $15, which I still
thought was high for two loads of laundry. He said "ok," shook my hand,
and said "friends" as he gestured between the two of us.
I was
all excited to have this cool negotiating story where I got the guy to
come way down in price. Alas, that is not the story I have to tell.
I
went back this morning to pick up the clothes. I brought an empty
suitcase and the equivalent of $15. When I got there, he communicated
to me that the price was $60. He tried to tell me that when I wrote
down $15, it was meant as a subtraction from the original price. That
is, when he asked me to write down a number, he was looking for x where
$75 - x = total. Not, x = total, which is what I thought I was writing.
I thought this was fairly unreasonable as I had already flatly rejected
$60.15, so for him to think that I would then counteroffer with $60 and
be very excited about the new price is pretty silly. Plus, he didn't
bother writing down "$75-x= total" until I got back and he had already
cleaned the laundry and had it safely in his possession. All this on
top of the fact that I had really just wanted to take the dirty laundry
back from him in the first place made for a rather frustrating
experience.
I didn't want to give in on this issue. I really
thought I had the stronger position to any outside observer. But, he
had hundreds of dollars worth of our clothes, and I wasn't about to
take them by force. I stood there for about ten minutes trying to get
him to crack. Then, I figured I didn't want to be confrontational, as
that's not really my style. So, I took on a silent protest position and
sat on the floor of the cleaners for about 20 minutes. While sitting
there, I tried to think of how to persuade this guy to give me the
laundry. I would probably have considered meeting him in the middle,
but I only had $15 on me, so couldn't actually offer more. I understood
that we both had positions that were at least plausible, even though I
thought my position was stronger. Anyhoo, I couldn't think of any sort
of solution, so I decided to go discuss it with Saki.
We figured
we'd send her as she's more of the hot shot, flaring temper, intimidate
the opponent into submission sort of negotiator. So, she went in and
talked to the guy. She said that as she walked to the cleaners, she
thought about crying, but decided not to. Instead, she made herself
relatable to this guy in a way I could not. She spoke to him in
Chinese, told him how her favorite grandparent (sorry, Bob) is Chinese
and that she identifies with the plight of the Chinese people. She went
on to tell me, and this is where I start to question the legitimacy of
the story, that the two of them broke into song, singing a number of
Chinese folk songs. In the end, she told him that we did not have $60,
but only $30. This contention was bolstered by the fact that she
managed to pull from her purse exactly $30 in many small bills. The guy
gave in and we got our laundry back.
Although, I still feel
pretty bummed about the whole thing, Saki has done a good job of
putting a positive spin on it. She thinks the price was actually quite
good, and that we should not focus on the price we thought we had ($15)
or the alternative we knew we had (do it ourselves for free).

Anyhoo,
the best thing to come out of this for me is some new underwear I
bought when I realized I had left all the underwear I had brought with
me at the cleaners. They have this awesome Tiger on them, whom I have
named Dragon.
As I am my grandmother's son, I think I may even buy some for Max as his gift from China. They're that cool.
In other news ...

We had one last meal with Mike and Alison on Wednesday before they head back to the states.

We went to a restaurant where we were able to have our own private room. It was great.



The menu was literally 5' long.


Mike and Alison got Saki a panda to remember them by. She wanted to call him Dragon, but I told her that name was taken.

Great meal. Sad goodbye.

After lunch, I went to work on making Saki a bandanna to match mine.

It came out quite nice.

After
a quiet night on Wednesday, we got tickets for a field hockey event on
Thursday. This would be Saki's first Olympic event!

She was all smiles the whole way to the event.




She got hung up in security for a little while. She got out of it by singing Chinese folk songs again. So clever!


We
didn't actually get to the Olympic Green, in which the stadium for
field hockey is housed, until about two hours after the event had
started. So, we decided to just walk around the green.

Saki danced along with the entertainers greeting us as we first got onto the green.

After
getting a couple of beers, we started browsing some of the building. It
was interesting who had their own buildings. The biggest one seemed to
be the Chinese Oil Company's. Not sure what that has to do with the
Olympics.

The Oil Company's building did provide an opportunity for more hugging of Olympic mascots, though. So, that was good.

I didn't seem to get the same strong response from people with cameras this time. This kid was more inquisitive than happy.


Saki nearly got taken out by a giant globe. Her cat like reflexes saved her.

Our
first view of the Water Box ! Note: It's commonly called the "Water
Cube", but Saki says the architecture community is apalled by this
misuse of a sacred term. Not all sides are of equal length. So, it is
merely a box, not a cube.

The Water Box and Bird's Nest are crazy close to each other.

We tried a number of poses with the Olympic torch.


There's just no way to be too cool for school with a little Asian girl on your shoulders.



Saki found a sign guiding us to the building that her firm designed.

We couldn't get in, but that was probably a good thing as they likely would have put Saki to work.

The Water Box is the coolest building I've ever seen.

There were some water fountains that kids were playing in.

I
tried to get this one girl who was in a rain jacket to run through
while holding my hand. We only made it a little way before I realized
she wasn't into it and her mother was thinking I was trying to steal
her daughter. I just don't know what happened to the power of the
bandanna.


Saki, however, managed to get some good shots.




There was an army of volunteers.

I
think they got a call informing them there was a tourist who would like
to know what time it was, and they were off like The Flash.

Some drums lined one of the escalators taking us from the subway level to the main level. A very cool prop.




On
Friday, I had to head to the business district to pick up some tickets
for swimming later that day. There was this English teaching business
trying to associate itself with Harvard, as it had a few signs with the
Harvard logo next to its advertisements. I tried to take some pictures,
but they shushed me away real quick like. Guilty conscience, I say.

The Chinese Television company's building is supposed to become one of Beijing's signature buildings.

I
went to the Olympic Green earlier than Saki on Friday, as our event was
scheduled to start before she'd get off work. On my way, I ran into a
big group of Poles. I was so excited to see them. I went up to them and
tried talking with them. I was like "English? Do you speak English?"
They were like "No." Then I was like "I am Polish." And they were like
"Well, hello, good sir. A pleasure to meet you." I told them about how
my favorite grandparent (sorry, grandma) was Polish and had very strong
Polish pride.


I then made it inside the Water Box, which is not as cool as the outside.


I was surprised to see that the diving and swimming are right next to each other.


It wasn't a particularly interesting event.

We did see Dana Torres, the 41 year old American swimmer.

We cheered on the one Pole we saw swim.


Like the other events we have attended, this one had low attendance.


Saki was excited to see the Japanese team (seen here in this life size picture) cheering on their teammates.


The crowd was heavily Chinese again, and it was fun to hear the crowd react to Chinese swimmers.

The
preliminary rounds for the men's 4x100 medley relay took place.
Although Michael Phelps will swim in this event in the finals, he did
not take part in the preliminaries.

As we headed out of the Water Box, we ran into a live filming of the Today Show.

Saki hopped up on my shoulders and took some shots. We feel like we were probably on TV as they panned the crowd.

Al Roker started chasing Meredith with a camera. He's a wily one.

Matt Lauer seemed awfully pensive.